Childproofing your home
by Anna Tham
Our young ones are always curious and love exploring. Besides poking their little fingers into their eyes, nose and mouth, they also make a beeline for buttons, knobs, holes, cracks, and tug at strings, wires, and handles. Colourful objects and things that move or make a noise also attract their curiosity.
Once you have a crawling toddler around the house, you need to keep him safe by childproofing your home. To be sure you leave no stone unturned, take a ‘baby’s-eye view’ around your home. Get down on all fours, crawl around and see what your baby sees as he makes his way around the house.
Here is a simple, but non-exhaustive, checklist to help you childproof your home:
>>> Do not place breakable items such as vases, decorative pieces or glass picture frames within his reach. It is best to keep them in storage for the time being.
>>> Secure doorknobs of rooms, bathrooms, kitchen cabinets and wardrobes with doorknob covers or safety latches. This will keep dangerous items such as poisonous household cleaning products, medicines or drugs, and sharp objects like knives and other tools from their reach.
>>> Install safety gates at the top and bottom of the staircase. It is best to use those that can be anchored to the wall or banister, instead of those that use pressure which may topple or dislodge if the child puts his weight against it.
>>> Secure all hard edges and sharp corners with protectors to prevent injury in the event your child bumps into them.
>>> Keep dangling cords for curtains, blinds and electrical appliances out of his reach. Also, hang mobiles or dangling toys out of his reach and remove them once he can sit or stand up.
>>> Babies pull up on furniture after they start crawling. And when they learn to climb, you need to watch out. Anchor shelving units, cabinets, television sets and bookcases with braces or brackets to the wall or floor to prevent them from tipping over. Place furniture away from windows and ensure that glass doors and windows are made of strong, tempered glass. Put heavier items on bottom shelves and drawers to make furniture less top-heavy.
>>> Place pots and pans on the inner burners of the stove, and turn the handles away from his reach. Install smoke detectors around the house and ensure they are in working condition. Keep a fire extinguisher in the house and have emergency telephone numbers handy.
>>> Keep unused pails empty or overturned. If you are soaking anything, make sure the pails are out of your child’s reach. Children are top heavy and can drown in just an inch of water. Secure toilet lids and bathroom doorknobs to prevent him from entering the bathroom. Install a fence around your swimming pool. Drain out your wading pool and store it upright if not in use.
>>> Keep your floors clean. Wipe up spills immediately. Check under the carpets or furniture for food crumbs or small items that your child could pick up and put into his mouth. They are not only dirty but could be choking hazards too.
Most importantly, watch your child all the time. Even if you have childproofed your home, it takes only an instant for him to fall, crawl or run over to a dangerous place or put something into his mouth.
Source: theSun, Tuesday, 24 November 2009
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Parenting Tips
Parenting Tips...
Here are some useful pointers for first-time mothers as well as mothers with a new addition to the family.
Walk the talk
Most parents want their children to be polite and use words like ‘please’ and ‘thank you’, but if children don’t hear adults using the words regularly, they are unlikely to use them either. Make an effort to be polite in front of your children and they are more likely to behave that way, too.
Empathise with the child
Promote empathy in children by talking to them about stories you have read or films they have watched. For instance, if you’ve been reading Cinderella, talk to them about how upset she was because her stepsisters were mean to her.
Avoid yes or no questions
Once your child nears the age of two, their favourite word will become ‘no’. It’s not that they really mean it – it’s just that they’re learning that they have some control over their world. If you find it hard to deal with it, try cutting out ‘yes’ and ‘no’ questions and ask things like: "would you like yoghurt or strawberries?" instead of "would you like some dessert?"
Simplify tasks
Frustration is a growing pain for children when they try to do something and invariably find that they can’t quite do it yet. Help the young by giving them toys or tasks they can manage and help them along when they encounter difficulty. Simple tasks like cleaning up can give children confidence in doing things.
Dealing with depression
Even children can get depressed. If your toddler doesn’t seem to be happy or is acting strangely, try and find out what’s upsetting him/her. If nothing seems to work, take the child to a doctor immediately.
Play together
Keeping a positive attitude and playing with your toddler can help lift your spirits, even when you’re feeling down. Make an effort to find the time to indulge in fun-filled activities with your child.
Never home alone
Do not leave your baby or young child at home alone, sleeping or awake, even for a few minutes. There could be some dangers lurking around that you may not be aware of. Take your child with you, or get someone to take care of him/her, whenever you leave the house.
Source: theSun, Tuesday, 17 November 2009
Here are some useful pointers for first-time mothers as well as mothers with a new addition to the family.
Walk the talk
Most parents want their children to be polite and use words like ‘please’ and ‘thank you’, but if children don’t hear adults using the words regularly, they are unlikely to use them either. Make an effort to be polite in front of your children and they are more likely to behave that way, too.
Empathise with the child
Promote empathy in children by talking to them about stories you have read or films they have watched. For instance, if you’ve been reading Cinderella, talk to them about how upset she was because her stepsisters were mean to her.
Avoid yes or no questions
Once your child nears the age of two, their favourite word will become ‘no’. It’s not that they really mean it – it’s just that they’re learning that they have some control over their world. If you find it hard to deal with it, try cutting out ‘yes’ and ‘no’ questions and ask things like: "would you like yoghurt or strawberries?" instead of "would you like some dessert?"
Simplify tasks
Frustration is a growing pain for children when they try to do something and invariably find that they can’t quite do it yet. Help the young by giving them toys or tasks they can manage and help them along when they encounter difficulty. Simple tasks like cleaning up can give children confidence in doing things.
Dealing with depression
Even children can get depressed. If your toddler doesn’t seem to be happy or is acting strangely, try and find out what’s upsetting him/her. If nothing seems to work, take the child to a doctor immediately.
Play together
Keeping a positive attitude and playing with your toddler can help lift your spirits, even when you’re feeling down. Make an effort to find the time to indulge in fun-filled activities with your child.
Never home alone
Do not leave your baby or young child at home alone, sleeping or awake, even for a few minutes. There could be some dangers lurking around that you may not be aware of. Take your child with you, or get someone to take care of him/her, whenever you leave the house.
Source: theSun, Tuesday, 17 November 2009
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)